how can I find out?
Me and my wife have been married for almost 2 yrs I love her very much but I am always worring that she is going to leave me or she is searching for someone else. She is very secretive on the computer puts on 2 passwords to log on to windows deletes all sent messages except to compaines or certain family members on our home computer she gave me a guest account. She always clears history now she got a laptop and gave me the home computer but before she did she rebooted the computer now she takes her laptop with her and puts in on the floor besides her when she sleeps she also hid it under the bed in a way so that the bed would have to be lifted up to get it out. She stays late after work almost everynight and doesnt feel she should have to tell me where she is going and when she will return. Recently I found out she was taking birth controll pills behind my back am I just going crazy or should I be concerned how can i find out if she has secret accounts or other email accounts .
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7 Responses to “how can I find out?”
there are search engines that will help you find her email accounts if she has another one. it sounds to me that she has alot to hide, try asking her what the big secret is with that laptop. Tell her you want to know that u are getting worried.
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Just love her, do your husband role, take her to a lake, to holdidays, to the theater, love her! Love her… It is OK what she is having, just love her and she will back! Buy roses, make dinner! You WERE with her, you are now WITH her, whatever is going on, and you WILL BE ALWAYS with her….
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If all you say is true then SHE IS HIDING SOMETHING, there is no reason to be doing all of that otherwise.
You have a guest account on your own computer? Hmm.
Personally I also clear my history at least twice a day just as a clean up procedure.
Personally ask her what she is hiding, why she is hiding and then go from there. It is very obvious she is. Putting it under the mattress. Come on, sorry but she has a problem and that in turn makes it your problem.
Taking birth control pills behind your back, will not say where she is when she will be home.
I think you have legitimate concerns.
Suggest a marriage counselor, see where she goes with that….
Call her at work, several times, let her know that you will not put up with this..
Your options are endless here as to how to treat this disrespect that she shows towards you. Wake her up to reality…
No hitting, no screaming, just put it to her in no uncertain terms that this behavior is upsetting to you. IF she loves you she WILL mend her ways.
I am sorry you are having such a rough time in such a short marriage, but better to find out the bs now than to turn a blind eye for 10 yrs or longer.. Best to you in your endeavors with the woman you love.
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#1. Don’t listan to crisa. Is it just me or is her answer telling you it’s o.k. if she is having an affair?#2 Hire a cheap detective.#3.Play the same game she is or you tell you are seeing someone else just to see her response.#4 For your own safty stop having sex with her until you find out.
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I think you just need to sit down and a have a heart to heart talk with her. Find out why she is so seceretive. Has she always been this secertive? Ask her to be honest with you and let her know that you love her and if she is w/someone else than you want her to be happy but WHATEVER you do dont stay w/her if shes cheating on you-you will regret it I promise you! Good luck!!!
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They do make software that tracks everything ( keyloggers and spy software ), the good ones will not show up on task manager, but will show up in services ( control panel — administrative tools — services — ), but you need administrators rights to install them. Once installed you can either have the program phone home to another computer to send ( usally email in the background on non email ports ) or it will hide the logs for later retrieval ( oddly enough you password protect to gain access to the logs ). Google keystroke loggers / spyware.
They will log all webpages, all keystrokes typed in, so all email recievied.
Or if you got plenty of time on your hand get EZ Recovery Pro by Ontrack and recover any deleted ( and formatted ) data from any drive. It will not get typed in keystrokes in web browsers or chat logs ( unless those are logged from the program themselves ) but it will get you quite a bit.
Happy Hunting.
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I agree with Crisa. If you are busy OBSERVING what she is doing, you are not spending time with her. And when you spend time with her, you are not WITH her because you are trying to figure out a way to ask her questions she may or may not want to answer.
Ok, to answer your question … it is RARE people know that everything that is downloaded (pictures and such) is cached and stored on the computer they use. The cache files are normally stored in the following area of your computer:
C:Documents and SettingsUSERNAMELocal
SettingsTemporary Internet FilesContent.IE5
To confirm where the files are stored, go to Internet Explorer – TOOLS|INTERNET OPTIONS|GENERAL, temporary internet files, SETTINGS … there you will find where the temporary files are located.
Now that you know where, you will have to open the folder up with Windows Explorer to view the files safely. Since this is a system folder, you will have to turn on the option to view them (in Windows Explorer|TOOLS|FOLDER OPTIONS, View, Advanced settings, checkmark=Display the contents of system folders).
Now go to DRIVE C (normally), then to Documents and Settings, Find her user name for the computer, open the LOCAL SETTINGS folder, Open the Temporary Internet Files folder and finally, open the “Content.IE5″ folder. There you will find different cache folders that will show pictures that were viewed via the internet explorer browser. To make it easier for viewing the pictures, make sure your VIEW option is set to THUMBNAILS.
IHOPETHISHELPS,
Paul
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